I happened to get to know this gal, A. Initially, it was juz some normal sms and MSN chats. But as time goes by we proceeded to phonecalls and such.

She was having some problems with her one of her ex as she could not get over him. So being a friend, I offered my advices and was hoping she cld eventually get over her ex. Subsequently,we had more phone chats and smses. Whenever she was feeling down or needed someone to tok to, I would be there to lend a listening ear to her.

Soon we met up, it was an unforgetable meeting. This gal A was bubbly,cheery full of energy and charismatic. She cracked up at the slighest comment I made. In other words, she made me feel very special. I know I was in 'trouble' this time. We also met up a 2nd time which was also an unforgetable date.

Somehow I knew this gal was not really my type cos she was really more of the extrovert. But somehow again I was really attracted to her. I was supposed to meet her for the 3rd time but I was also thinking if this gal was really suitable for me. Thus I believed she went out with her another guy friend on the Sunday when we were supposed to meet. My sms to her also lessened considerably. This continued to Monday when she actually told me she got a liking for me. Feeling over the moon, I admitted I like her too. She told me not to think too much cos she was not that sure of her feelings yet as she felt weird cos I lessened my smses to her considerably. She dunno if she was too used to my sms or feeling something else.

But things did not go well, the next day. She told me she was confused cos her crush (another guy who was good looking and those playboy type) sent her weird smses hinting he was interested in her too. I was quite shattered cos I did not know she was actually KIV-ing (keep in view) 2 potential guys to be her bf. I knew that guy was not serious and just playing mind games. 3 days later, she told me she was over this guy. She also said to me she was a very fickle minded person and can easily change of heart.

We met for the 3rd and 4th time. I also to know her better as she had a more subtle side of her which made me to be more attracted to her. I did try to distant from her for the 2nd time but she sorta like pull me back asking me not to really distant from her. Eventually, she did ask me some personal qns of which one is one of her most important criterial for becoming her bf. Anyway I met her criterial. She said she was happy to know I met her criterial. Soon our smses became more 'intimate' with 'i miss u, do u miss me' stuff. I assumed she was still unsure but she told me one night that she was more or less sure what or who she wanted now. (50% 50%) Back then I was on the only guy on her 'list'

She got herself into some 'trouble' last Sat during clubbing and I was on e phone all the way with her to make sure she was alright and got home safely. I did offer to bring her home via cab but her frineds sent her home.

We met on this morning (sunday) for KTV. It was pretty fun as usual. Later we met up 2 of her friends and her cousin for board games. One of her friend is a nice guy who is out-spoken, have gift of the tongue, knowledgable, easy going and can relate to ladies well. Me being tired after a 4 hr KTV session was well being more quiet. Well I did not really have the chance to tok much since that guy friend was practically speaking since we all met.

Later at night, she told me she think she was more in for guys who are more out-spoken and I am not in her 'list' anymore. She also mentioned to me she was not interested in this above mentioned guy friend whom she affectionately call him 'da jie'. She did apologise to me if she ever mislead me in anyways.

Its not a very nice feeling i mst say. but..

Well I guess she is more or less over her ex now. But do u gals and guys think i was being too stupid,too dumb, too goody 2 shoes to do all those for her? I nv expect anything in return in the 1st place tho.

Thank you for reading.