Ponders upon ponders, my mind wonder abt this word called RELATIONSHIP. Human are gregarious creatures. No man is an island, to me at least. A r/s is never easy in the first place, no matter what it is, be it love,family,friends.

Lets start with love btwn a man and a woman. Who dun want to be loved? Who dun want to have someone by ur side to care for and to be cared for? Who dun wan someone to be there to love and to be loved? Somehow, no matter what there will be a special place for that someone special, whether they appear or not. Today, I see alot of pple taking r/s lightly. Some young people are afraid to be tied down by the committment needed for a r/s. Some went into one without thinking they need to commit in a r/s. Some people do not know what they want in a r/s.

For those who dun wan to be committed,they go for flings. 'Flings', what an alien word. I honestly cannot fully comprehend some pple can actually 'suppress' themselves. It is amazing feat to actually be able to prevent urself from commiting. Or is the fact that they do not dare to commit? Anyway, it just boils down to the fact that people are too selfish these days.

As for friends, I believe real friends are those whom u can go thru thick and thin with. They can laugh with u and they can cry with u. They will chide u when u r lost and they will lend a helping hand when u need one. Real friends will not let minor things like small quarrels or fights to ruin the whole thing. Real friends will not make use of one another for monetary or personal satisfaction. Real friends are there, always when u need them.

As for family, I am too lazy to comment. ahhahaha. Give me ur comments and ideas, if there's anyone who read. =/